What is to Be Human?


“Our origins are of the earth,” Rachel Carson wrote in contemplating science and our spiritual bond with nature.“And so there is in us a deeply seated response to the natural universe, which is part of our humanity.”

We are all pieces, trying to find the best fit for all our edges; grappling with self, with life and with purpose.

Sometimes inside of my head feels like what it must have been at the beginning of evolution – barren - with a lurking promise of things to come. Sometimes in the middle of a call or an inbox frenzy, there are moments of quiet and where I stare at my work laptop absentmindedly – the quiet of within washing over – noticing the way – the glory of sky is colour coded robin's egg and the sunny wind flirting with trees. Amidst the current chaos and challenge the humanity is facing, if only you stop and look around - the nature goes on.  All accepting - all observing and yet giving. Always giving. And there it is again, Gratitude! There is a lot to be grateful.

Lewis Thomas wrote: " Our great hope is in being such a young species, thinking in language only a short while, still learning, still growing up.We are not like the social insects. They have only the one way of doing things and they will do it forever, coded for that way. We are coded differently, not just for binary choices, go or no-go. We can go four ways at once, depending on how the air feels: go, no-go, but also maybe, plus what the hell let’s give it a try. We are in for one surprise after another if we keep at it and keep alive. We can build structures for human society never seen before, thoughts never thought before, music never heard before. Provided we do not kill ourselves off, and provided we can connect ourselves by the affection and respect for which I believe our genes are also coded, there is no end to what we might do on or off this planet."

And I believe, for better or for worse - as is the case with all major events, incidents, natural disasters - humanity comes away a little more resilient, a bit more better off!

At least that is the Hope. Hope that thing with feathers as Emily Dickinson describes it. It is absolutely essential that we be convinced of our own goodness. Our ability to empathise and rise above. What's needed right now more than the herd immunity is the herd compassion.

No more the blaming, no more the finger pointing, no more the "as-long-as-am-safe" and no longer drowning. in the past, or fearful of the future. How could we be? The future is Us.

Copyright©Neerja Yadav

Exploring Humility


In Asian cultures modesty and respect for others are conveyed through the simple gesture of bowing.  The hands-together bow is used throughout Asia: in Japan (gasshō), China (héshi or hézhǎng), Thailand (wai) Viet Nam, (hip chưởng) and India (the añjali mudrā or namaste).

Rabbi Simcha Bunim of Peshicha (1765-1827) used to say that everyone should keep a piece of paper with “for my sake the world was created” in one pocket, and a piece of paper with “I am but dust and ashes” in another.  The Rabbi was expressing an existential truth: each individual being is important, but not self-important.

The root word of Humility and Humble comes from humus which means 'from the earth' or 'grounded' and just like a tiny a flower thats springs from earth, celebrates its beauty as much as the big birch. I  continue to learn that there's always this self, this ego that stands like a guard against some of the necessary naturalness of the soul. And thats not really a fault - it's rather a survival mode developed by our brains in order to protect, the one of the frailest flesh and bone of animal kingdom.

Darwinism aside, on one hand it would seem that humility is rather under-valued—not to mention difficult to find—in modern life today. On the other hand it is quite  Humean (it was Hume, after all, who famously disparaged humility as a “monkish virtue.”)  Doesn’t humility involve putting ourselves down? Doesn’t it conflict with pride, and with confidence, both of which, surely, do have some positive value, at least when appropriately felt and expressed? Moreover, doesn’t humility involve pretending to think worse of ourselves than we really do, thus committing us to dishonesty and insincerity?

A very commonplace fallacy constructed, and rightly so, when humility while being a virtue inculcated in pupils; began to be abused for power, as a mental and emotional gaslighting through ages, societies and civilization.

With industrial and then technological revolution some of these societal threats have now lessened. However, it would take a few more decades (if we survive as a species) for HomoSapiens to truly explore some of the amazing things our mind-body continuum is capable of without cannibalism in any form.

Like all things of high calibre and sophisticated conceptual construct - humility like true meditation isn't about belittling self it's rather about knowing that whilst we are our own creator's of reality - there are zillion of other realities AND we have neither the accoutrement nor can we fathom the vastness of things that there are. It is about celebrating the fact of being alive and evolving together with the rest of the life around us.

It is finally about acknowledging that we don't know all and it is okay to not know all and it is okay to continue to be a learner or even sated with oneself without the need to compare self with any other living thing.

Here's wishing all of us a  way to be find humility in our hearts

Copyright©Neerja Yadav